I've worked out that I'm always the Friend.
To guys I mean, I'm always the friend, the one they come to for advice and talk to about other girls but never fancy. The one that suddenly gets less attention if they have a new girlfriend. The one who they don't see in 'that' way.
And I've decided that I love being that friend!
Yeah sometimes it sucks if I happen to like the guy but to be honest I have some of the best guy friends ever. Most of the time I've liked a guy but it hasnt been reciprocated and so we've just been friends and I realised how well that's worked out for me! It means that I have amazing friends and don't have to worry about being honest with them because they're my friends. I can wear a big jumper and look horrible and they don't care!
Of course one day it'd be nice to have a boyfriend but at this point in my life I don't want a boyfriend. yet I don't have to miss out on the male company and flirty banter because all my amazing guy mates provide that for me.
All of this comes after I had a really good conversation with a guy mate of mine who's going through some stuff and I realised that I love being just his friend. I get to be the one he trusts and confides in and comes back to. I get to just have fun and laugh with him and not have to worry about what it might mean.
Always being the friend is actually pretty good :)
1 comment:
Its pretty good to have that kind of friend around as well that you can rely on. :)
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