The coca-cola advert has been on, I've started opening my advent calender and with PJ home this weekend we've put up the christmas decorations :) christmas is on it's way!
There has been snow this week but we've had hardly any, just a sprinkling earlier this week...whereas the rest of the country has had inches and inches of snow...it's not fair! I love snow, it's beautiful and an amazing reminder of God's creation and love. Yet I have hardly been able to enjoy it because Oxfordshire appears to be the only place to not get proper snow. PJ's had it in Southampton, loads of my friends away at uni have had it, my friends in London have got it...it's not fair!
However they say it'll stay cold for the next few weeks so maybe I'll get...dare I say it...a white christmas!
We've hit a major obstacle with the CU carol service in that it's on Tuesday and we've just found out we don't have the venue that we thought we had...and having already handed out 3000 flyers that is a little worrying! We're now waiting on an email/phone call from the head of another society in the hope that they will let us have the venue that we thought we had booked!
Am praying that things will work out for God's plan but I'd rather know whether we can have the venue or whether we need to put plan B into motion...I hate being in limbo.
Speaking of limbo, I am still in placement limbo but as of this week I might be out of it. On thursday I have an informal interview for a new placement, it wouldn't start until January so would definitely delay my graduation but at least then I'd have a plan with a timeframe sorted.
That's all going on in my life at the moment; CU stuff, placement stuff and got one more assignment left (I've done the major presentation that I had to do, it went well!).
Mostly I'm just looking forward to Christmas :D
Much love xxx
Saturday, 4 December 2010
Friday, 12 November 2010
Being a 'normal' student
Since I'm now off placement and waiting for a new one, I've started to realise that I have more free time now.
Obviously I'm using some of it to do my uni work and my dissertation but it also means I'm available to see my friends more...during the day even which is crazy for me because normally I can't ever make plans during the day because of placement.
I'm enjoying getting the chance to be a 'normal' student! I'm happier now I'm off placement and I'm enjoying the break.
It's weird not knowing how long my break might be though, I can't make plans further than a week or so ahead incase I suddenly get a new placement. But equally I want enough time to know I can get some good uni work done. Hmm it's weird!
Either way, I'm happy again. I have time to recooperate and enjoy being a student. I'm confident in the uni work I'm doing (other than dissertation which overwhelms me a little) and I'm trying to trust that God has a reason for this time.
I'm sure in hindsight it'll be more obvious!
Much love xxx
Obviously I'm using some of it to do my uni work and my dissertation but it also means I'm available to see my friends more...during the day even which is crazy for me because normally I can't ever make plans during the day because of placement.
I'm enjoying getting the chance to be a 'normal' student! I'm happier now I'm off placement and I'm enjoying the break.
It's weird not knowing how long my break might be though, I can't make plans further than a week or so ahead incase I suddenly get a new placement. But equally I want enough time to know I can get some good uni work done. Hmm it's weird!
Either way, I'm happy again. I have time to recooperate and enjoy being a student. I'm confident in the uni work I'm doing (other than dissertation which overwhelms me a little) and I'm trying to trust that God has a reason for this time.
I'm sure in hindsight it'll be more obvious!
Much love xxx
Sunday, 31 October 2010
Doing something about it
So following my last blog where I realised that I wasn't actually very happy, I had a long chat with Mum and worked out that the problem really stemmed from placement and that fact that I wasn't happy there.
So I did something about it.
The original plan had been to try and see my placement lead as soon as possible and work out my options but Tuesday morning I got so upset thinking about going in and I was making myself unwell. I won't talk alot about why I wasn't enjoying placement for confidentiality reasons but it was a few different things- including my own lack of experience in statutory social services. I didn't go into placement on Tuesday, instead I went and saw my tutor who said I did need to see my placement lead but confirmed that perhaps I shouldnt be in this placement anymore.
Therefore I was signed off placement for the week until I could see my placement lead- after a few days waiting and wondering over the 'what ifs', I saw her on Friday. Following a difficult conversation it was agreed that I should have a new placement.
Realistically what this means is that she needs to find me a new placement, which she said wouldn't be in statutory social services again because she's not confident in my ability to cope there which I guess is understandable. I will have to start at 0 days again and she has no idea how quickly she can find a placement for me.
I've worked out that if I start my new placement by beginning of December then I can get all my days in by the deadline in May...if not, then I might have to delay my graduation until September.
This obviously wouldn't be ideal as I'd like to graduate with my friends but I think it's probably more important to be happy.
Right now I'm in some sort of limbo where it hasn't quite sunk in that I've been allowed to leave placement and I'm just waiting. I'm planning to use the time off (since now I have nothing but lectures 1 day a week) to work hard on my academic work and catch up with it all, plus get a good start on my dissertation hopefully.
I've been encouraged through this week by the number of my friends who have rallied round to support me- prayers, hugs, long conversations full of reassurance, meals, or simply providing a distraction to make me laugh. In particular on Tuesday night when I was really emotional about it all, I went to a CU exec meeting and ended up crying during prayers at the end and the support I got from the rest of the team was overwhelming. Another time was on wednesday both before and after CU with different friends making me laugh. And Friday after the decision had been made but I was feeling a little battered from the conversation with my placement lead and Dina came round for coffee with flowers and chocolates.
Despite saying that I hadn't seen enough of my friends, this week I've seen them alot and it turns out that they don't really care if placement sometimes takes me away, they will always be there when I need them and they believe in me.
I think that's a good update for now, I'm in limbo but definitely happier :)
Much love xxx
So I did something about it.
The original plan had been to try and see my placement lead as soon as possible and work out my options but Tuesday morning I got so upset thinking about going in and I was making myself unwell. I won't talk alot about why I wasn't enjoying placement for confidentiality reasons but it was a few different things- including my own lack of experience in statutory social services. I didn't go into placement on Tuesday, instead I went and saw my tutor who said I did need to see my placement lead but confirmed that perhaps I shouldnt be in this placement anymore.
Therefore I was signed off placement for the week until I could see my placement lead- after a few days waiting and wondering over the 'what ifs', I saw her on Friday. Following a difficult conversation it was agreed that I should have a new placement.
Realistically what this means is that she needs to find me a new placement, which she said wouldn't be in statutory social services again because she's not confident in my ability to cope there which I guess is understandable. I will have to start at 0 days again and she has no idea how quickly she can find a placement for me.
I've worked out that if I start my new placement by beginning of December then I can get all my days in by the deadline in May...if not, then I might have to delay my graduation until September.
This obviously wouldn't be ideal as I'd like to graduate with my friends but I think it's probably more important to be happy.
Right now I'm in some sort of limbo where it hasn't quite sunk in that I've been allowed to leave placement and I'm just waiting. I'm planning to use the time off (since now I have nothing but lectures 1 day a week) to work hard on my academic work and catch up with it all, plus get a good start on my dissertation hopefully.
I've been encouraged through this week by the number of my friends who have rallied round to support me- prayers, hugs, long conversations full of reassurance, meals, or simply providing a distraction to make me laugh. In particular on Tuesday night when I was really emotional about it all, I went to a CU exec meeting and ended up crying during prayers at the end and the support I got from the rest of the team was overwhelming. Another time was on wednesday both before and after CU with different friends making me laugh. And Friday after the decision had been made but I was feeling a little battered from the conversation with my placement lead and Dina came round for coffee with flowers and chocolates.
Despite saying that I hadn't seen enough of my friends, this week I've seen them alot and it turns out that they don't really care if placement sometimes takes me away, they will always be there when I need them and they believe in me.
I think that's a good update for now, I'm in limbo but definitely happier :)
Much love xxx
Monday, 25 October 2010
CU Weekend Away and back to earth with a crash...
This past weekend was the CU weekend away...I was co-organiser this year which meant alot of preparation work. Which is one of the reasons I haven't blogged in a month...very busy with placement, uni and CU stuff!
But after all the stress and planning and hard work, we got there...56 members of the CU altogether to learn more about God, get to know each other better and get some time away.
And I had the best time ever :D I got a chance to just stop and hang out with my friends, to worship God and build better relationships with people. I laughed ALOT, I cried a little but mostly I got to escape. I got to live in a world where I didn't have to think about placement or assignments or worry about admin jobs for the CU...I sat and talked with my friends, I had an impromtu pillow fight, I played stupid icebreaker games, I ate yummy food, I held a fake family group conference for a fake CU family with fake family issues all as part of an inside joke....I was happy :)
But now I'm home and I'm tired and I'm realising that I'm back to reality.
A reality where I'm not loving my placement, it's gotten better but I still don't really want to go in to work...
A reality where I have two presentations, 3 essays and a disseration to do...all of which I keep putting off because I can't be bothered to do the work...
A reality where I still have a million jobs to do for CU and exec meetings to attend...
A reality where all I do is stumble through the week, not having enough time to see my friends, wishing that my days at placement would go faster, knowing that deadlines are creeping up, desperately wanting it to be the weekend again...and then I get to the weekend and all I do is crash out, do not enough work and then suddenly it's monday again...
I'm not quite sure how to remedy this. How to rebalance my life in order to cope. How to make more time to see my friends and do things that will make my last year at uni more enjoyable. I guess I'm feeling a little lonely too. I miss having PJ around, I don't have the time or energy to see my friends enough socially (I only see them at CU), and I really need to get some work done!
The CU weekend away showed me that there's more to life than just mundanely stumbling through your week in the hope that May of next year will come quicker. That making time to just sit and drink hot chocolate with my friends actually makes me really happy. Now I just have to work out how to translate that back into reality.
Much love xxx
But after all the stress and planning and hard work, we got there...56 members of the CU altogether to learn more about God, get to know each other better and get some time away.
And I had the best time ever :D I got a chance to just stop and hang out with my friends, to worship God and build better relationships with people. I laughed ALOT, I cried a little but mostly I got to escape. I got to live in a world where I didn't have to think about placement or assignments or worry about admin jobs for the CU...I sat and talked with my friends, I had an impromtu pillow fight, I played stupid icebreaker games, I ate yummy food, I held a fake family group conference for a fake CU family with fake family issues all as part of an inside joke....I was happy :)
But now I'm home and I'm tired and I'm realising that I'm back to reality.
A reality where I'm not loving my placement, it's gotten better but I still don't really want to go in to work...
A reality where I have two presentations, 3 essays and a disseration to do...all of which I keep putting off because I can't be bothered to do the work...
A reality where I still have a million jobs to do for CU and exec meetings to attend...
A reality where all I do is stumble through the week, not having enough time to see my friends, wishing that my days at placement would go faster, knowing that deadlines are creeping up, desperately wanting it to be the weekend again...and then I get to the weekend and all I do is crash out, do not enough work and then suddenly it's monday again...
I'm not quite sure how to remedy this. How to rebalance my life in order to cope. How to make more time to see my friends and do things that will make my last year at uni more enjoyable. I guess I'm feeling a little lonely too. I miss having PJ around, I don't have the time or energy to see my friends enough socially (I only see them at CU), and I really need to get some work done!
The CU weekend away showed me that there's more to life than just mundanely stumbling through your week in the hope that May of next year will come quicker. That making time to just sit and drink hot chocolate with my friends actually makes me really happy. Now I just have to work out how to translate that back into reality.
Much love xxx
Saturday, 25 September 2010
Freshers Week x2
This past week has been freshers week at my uni, which has meant busy times for me with CU events and things.
I absolutely LOVE it though, it was so much fun to hang out with my CU friends and even make new friendships with some people I didn't know quite as well. Plus we got so many freshers, God blessed our events with lots of people and good fun times :)
In addition to the normal events we ran (live music, challenge night, bbq, freshers fair stall)...I also ate fish & chips in christchurch meadow, got pushed off a blow-up sofa multiple times, made lots of cake, played baseball in south parks, spoke to the 2nd year social work students at uni and ended up taking a friend to A&E for a head injury....it was an interesting week!
It was just really nice to hang out with good friends, both old and new, and have a good time. Especially because my placement starts on monday and I know life is about to get very busy!
To end the week, today we took PJ to university :s it was really weird and I had very mixed emotions about it. I dislike halls...they do not hold good memories for me, so it was interesting to go into a new set of halls except this time in Southampton. PJ has a nice room and we briefly met 2 of his new flatmates. We're going back tomorrow to see Hannah's flat when she moves in and to take PJ to lunch, so I'm seeing him soon but I definitely had a little cry after saying goodbye to him.
I know he'll have a good time, he's a smart and sociable boy and will make friends quickly.
It also made me really glad that I've got at least another year at home before I have to think about moving out! One of us being away at a time is more than enough!
I think that's all for now, I'm a little anxious about starting placement on monday but am hoping it'll be ok and trying to be excited rather than nervous :)
Much love xxx
I absolutely LOVE it though, it was so much fun to hang out with my CU friends and even make new friendships with some people I didn't know quite as well. Plus we got so many freshers, God blessed our events with lots of people and good fun times :)
In addition to the normal events we ran (live music, challenge night, bbq, freshers fair stall)...I also ate fish & chips in christchurch meadow, got pushed off a blow-up sofa multiple times, made lots of cake, played baseball in south parks, spoke to the 2nd year social work students at uni and ended up taking a friend to A&E for a head injury....it was an interesting week!
It was just really nice to hang out with good friends, both old and new, and have a good time. Especially because my placement starts on monday and I know life is about to get very busy!
To end the week, today we took PJ to university :s it was really weird and I had very mixed emotions about it. I dislike halls...they do not hold good memories for me, so it was interesting to go into a new set of halls except this time in Southampton. PJ has a nice room and we briefly met 2 of his new flatmates. We're going back tomorrow to see Hannah's flat when she moves in and to take PJ to lunch, so I'm seeing him soon but I definitely had a little cry after saying goodbye to him.
I know he'll have a good time, he's a smart and sociable boy and will make friends quickly.
It also made me really glad that I've got at least another year at home before I have to think about moving out! One of us being away at a time is more than enough!
I think that's all for now, I'm a little anxious about starting placement on monday but am hoping it'll be ok and trying to be excited rather than nervous :)
Much love xxx
Monday, 13 September 2010
Promises
I'm being reminded recently to trust in the promises that God has given me. I've been prompted by bible study emails, talks at church, off-hand conversations with friends...it's one of those situations where God knows exactly how I'm feeling so he sends a million obvious messages to make me listen to him.
Sometimes the stress of life, and the 'what ifs' of the future can get too loud and drown out God's voice and actually I need to trust that he has a plan for me.
Some promises which he has already made to me are things I'll have to wait for (a husband and a family) and remember that I'm still young and that God will make it happen in the right timings.
Other promises are things that I believe he has said to me but that I don't know when or how that might happen. These are harder because there are so many possibilities for how it might come about and I don't know whether I'm going off of what I want or going from what God wants.
Ultimately God loves me and I need to keep trusting in his plan for my life. I also welcome his continued nudges and prompts because it's easy to let the world distract my focus and any help in keeping my eyes on him is good.
'For I know the plans I have for you' declares the Lord 'plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future' Jeremiah 29:11
Much love xxx
Sometimes the stress of life, and the 'what ifs' of the future can get too loud and drown out God's voice and actually I need to trust that he has a plan for me.
Some promises which he has already made to me are things I'll have to wait for (a husband and a family) and remember that I'm still young and that God will make it happen in the right timings.
Other promises are things that I believe he has said to me but that I don't know when or how that might happen. These are harder because there are so many possibilities for how it might come about and I don't know whether I'm going off of what I want or going from what God wants.
Ultimately God loves me and I need to keep trusting in his plan for my life. I also welcome his continued nudges and prompts because it's easy to let the world distract my focus and any help in keeping my eyes on him is good.
'For I know the plans I have for you' declares the Lord 'plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future' Jeremiah 29:11
Much love xxx
Saturday, 4 September 2010
Growing up in age but not in mentality...
In 2 days I turn 21 years of age...however my birthday celebrations have been going since Wednesday :D it's a special birthday so it has to be celebrated properly! And by properly I mean by doing all the child-like things I can which also happen to be all the things I love!
Wednesday to Friday I have not been at home, I have been in the magical place of Disneyland Paris (told you it was child-like things...) I went with two of my loveliest friends from CU- Alice and Charli- and we stayed in the beautiful princess hotel and went on all the rides and got to meet the characters (got a high-five from tigger, hug from minnie mouse, a kiss from eeyore and pictures with them all), we even made it into Paris for the afternoon/evening on Thursday.
I had so much fun, I love Disney and the hotel was so comfortable and the rides were fun and I was with two of my best friends. It was amazing!
Then today I had a big family BBQ with almost all my favourite people- 37 of them to be precise :D family, friends...lots of lovely people bringing me lots of lovely presents and wanting to spend the afternoon celebrating with me. We had a BBQ for lunch, followed by many rounds of ninja (a very fun game) which were split up by amazingly yummy cupcakes, ice-cream and champagne throughout the afternoon...this was followed by an impromtu water fight and afternoon tea (more cupcakes). Everyone had fun, good conversations, lots of laughter and I felt very loved and celebrated.
Tomorrow I will go to Godzone and church etc and Monday is my actual birthday where we're going out for lunch as a family (without Dad who is in Istanbul- although he has made a huge effort to make that up to me which I appreciate).
Ultimately I have had a brilliant birthday week so far and am sure it is set to continue :)
I'm liking turning 21...the next year has alot in store- final year of uni, placement, graduation, finding a job, maybe even moving out of home...
Some people don't like growing up but I quite enjoy it...especially when you do it the way I do!
Much love xxx
Wednesday to Friday I have not been at home, I have been in the magical place of Disneyland Paris (told you it was child-like things...) I went with two of my loveliest friends from CU- Alice and Charli- and we stayed in the beautiful princess hotel and went on all the rides and got to meet the characters (got a high-five from tigger, hug from minnie mouse, a kiss from eeyore and pictures with them all), we even made it into Paris for the afternoon/evening on Thursday.
I had so much fun, I love Disney and the hotel was so comfortable and the rides were fun and I was with two of my best friends. It was amazing!
Then today I had a big family BBQ with almost all my favourite people- 37 of them to be precise :D family, friends...lots of lovely people bringing me lots of lovely presents and wanting to spend the afternoon celebrating with me. We had a BBQ for lunch, followed by many rounds of ninja (a very fun game) which were split up by amazingly yummy cupcakes, ice-cream and champagne throughout the afternoon...this was followed by an impromtu water fight and afternoon tea (more cupcakes). Everyone had fun, good conversations, lots of laughter and I felt very loved and celebrated.
Tomorrow I will go to Godzone and church etc and Monday is my actual birthday where we're going out for lunch as a family (without Dad who is in Istanbul- although he has made a huge effort to make that up to me which I appreciate).
Ultimately I have had a brilliant birthday week so far and am sure it is set to continue :)
I'm liking turning 21...the next year has alot in store- final year of uni, placement, graduation, finding a job, maybe even moving out of home...
Some people don't like growing up but I quite enjoy it...especially when you do it the way I do!
Much love xxx
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)