arghhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!
kate always txts me whenever her and her bf jon (who is also my friend) have problems. tonight i txt him to get him to txt her (she is very over-emotional at the moment due to hormones from taking the pill) and it resulted in him getting mad at her for moaning to me. then them both getting mad at me for interfering. she says she confided in me and i shouldnt have said anything and that she thought she could trust me and didnt ask me to get involved.
i'm now annoyed coz she's always asking for my help, but now he's mad she's blaming me.
and i'm sick of being there for her without any thanks and just getting blamed.
it ended with me saying 'fine. i should've never opened my mouth. i wont ever try to help again.'
and yesterday when she was upset i txt jon and he txt her to calm her down and it all worked out fine, he even said thanks for helping. but today its all my fault.
firstly she doesnt understand how lucky she is to even have a boyfriend. secondly i'm happy to help with big problems but when it comes down to 'oh he didnt txt me back yet' its getting stupid. and thirdly if she thinks she can sort it by herself then why did she come to me?
well she can sort it all out by herself. i'm done. i won't be blamed for this. i dont think its my fault.
i'm just gonna step back and let it cool off.
this probably doesnt make any sense but i'm ranting and releasing my pent-up frustration!
two of my friends (both called anna strangely enough) have been helpful :) one knows both kate and jon. and the other knows neither of them. and both back me up on this so its not just me thinking i'm right.
like anna f said 'that's the curse, isn't it, if it goes well it's all fine, if it doesn't suddenly you're public enemy #1'
well i'm gonna go sleep, escape this stupid thing.
xxxxx
4 comments:
i'll give the situation a biy of prayer. :)
don't be put off - most of the time i you're in the right everything sorts itself out around you until it's back to normal.
just tread carefully and be happy to be the one not getting mad at anyone.
having slept on it i'm feeling less angry. i think i wanted to be mad because i wanted them to feel guilty and it was all emotional.
today i'm just gonna let them sort it out and step back from the situation.
Annas are generally helpful people ;) glad to be considered a friend. x x
annas are amazing.
im very happy you're feeling better about it today! :)
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